A Mom and More

Beginning a new journey at 50

Towards an Independence Day from Life Traps

Today, 12 June 2008, I celebrated Philippine Independence in my own personal way.  Unlike in the past, I did not have to wave the Philippine flag as the national anthem played in school.  I did not get stuck in front of the TV watching colorful floats of various socio-civic-public and business groups.  I did not […]

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Turning 50 In One Red Land, Differently, part 4 - gifts

My 50 symbolic and real gifts

It made me feel young once more as a child by the Christmas tree: awed by the size of the gift box and eager to know what could be inside it for me. When I opened the box, I was amazed that it contained not just one but 50 individual […]

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Turning 50 In One Red Land, Differently, part 3 - games

Tonight, it’s my turn.
For most of our parties, I handled reception and guests, games and party activities (since my family and I have long realized that I have not been blessed with culinary talents). Tonight, I am relieved as Arthur (my youngest brother) substitutes for me as the party clown-mascot. Tonight, I celebrated a passage […]

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Three Meetings, Three Roles

Today, aside from being a mom, I played three roles: Ma’m, Mrs. and me.

Early morning breakfast at McDo, as Ma’m — I met Ade (not her real name), our ever-loyal, hardworking and longest running assistant (a. k. a. “super alalay”). I have known her for almost 20 years now. We first […]

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I Miss My Isuzu Fuego

It’s been 3 years since I parted with my red friend 144, a millenium edition Isuzu Fuego, who would have been with me as I start my new journey if only my financial plans materialized. It was one of the best presents I got for a birthday. I/we worked hard to have it […]

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